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  • Today is Friday and i've been feeling glum
    Amazon,  Parenting,  Poetry

    Friday and tired and glum

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    Today is Friday and i’ve been feeling glum,
    Sitting feeling sorry for myself feeling tired and done.
    I’ve been sat here looking at the winter weather,
    Whilst trying to read The Foreigner. a book by Stephen Leather.
    A few days ago I managed to buy the film with Jackie Chan,
    It has some subtitles but is in English, I am a real huge fan.

    I sat and read but with the tiredness I just wanted to sleep,
    The pages blurred and I gave up, before I got to deep.
    So soon there I was with thoughts going around my head,
    Lying there, comfortable feeling warm in my bed.
    Sleep soon filled my head with dreams and then they were disturbed
    As Alexa then rang the alarm bell, I really felt quite perturbed.

    I got up and looked at my daughter’s untidy room,
    The mess is not inviting, it is a mess again too soon.
    Teddy bears, toys and clothes all scattered on the floor,
    It is an obstacle course to reach the wardrobe doors.
    Why will our 5 year old not tidy her mess?
    Instead of mummy feeling upset and distressed.

    My day was soon over and I had to collect the children,
    Had to drive to school then stand and wait before I could take them.
    Our daughter was really happy, as proudly our little leader,
    Told me her reading has improved and she’s now on Accelerated Reader.
    The excitement of the reading was then doubled by our son,
    Who is doing well with his numbers and finding them real fun.

    Once home I really hoped that they would tidy their rooms,
    Our son he did protest but he did not refuse.
    My daughter she looked at it but then she stood and cried,
    Happy to climb over her toy mountain, wanting to play and hide.
    The children they will so rarely do as they are told,
    As I stand here, watching them, feeling grey and old.

    So here we are and the kids still have their messy rooms,
    They are now both asleep and morning will be here all too soon.
    The weekend will bring homework and more arguments and stress,
    The work goes on, so busy, no time for mum to rest.
    Tomorrow will bring washing and Sunday then the ironing,
    A mum’s job is never done, I rarely feel I’m winning.

    I hope we can have some quality time and spend some time together,
    Make some happy memories our ties we will never sever.
    Playing with the lego or maybe with the train’s,
    Maybe we will go outside if it doesn’t rain.
    The homework it still needs to be completed,
    Despite all the stress it presents, we will not be defeated.

    So now it is late, I’m going to find my bed,
    Hoping sleep will ease the pain in my head.
    Tomorrow I hope will be a better day,
    So as they say, i’m now going to bed and hit the hay.
    Sitting here now writing my poetry,
    I’m feeling calm and quiet, now it’s time for me.

     

    For more see, Another long Wednesday

  • new year Time for new resolutions
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    10 ideas for your new year, new resolutions and a new you

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    So here we are beginning of a new year. Time for new resolutions maybe to get fit, to maybe quit smoking and drink less.   My resolution this year is to try and be more positive and focus on the future, not the past.  Here are some ideas of things that may help you reach your goals, ideas for a new you.

    1. Exercise can be difficult when you are a working mum.  For the new year new trainers may be needed as  well as motivation. The urge to just sit, we all know this feeling as the kids are bouncing around the front room.  Walking is a good activity for you as well as for them.
    2. Clothes, maybe  jogging bottoms to go for a run in,  Time alone whilst dad has the children.
    3.   New wellies for you and for the children for time spent playing in mud or maybe in the garden or walking around the woods.
    4. A new coat ready to face the new year weather.
    5. Maybe you are thinking now about activity that you can do indoors. These dumbells could be used in front of the television or as part of an exercise regime.
    6. If exercise is not on your mind but relaxing is, maybe a new Kindle Paperwhite might be the answer,  Amazon are also offering a trial of Kindle unlimited (America) Kindle Unlimited (UK) which Is worthwhile having, especially with a new kindle.
    7. Shifting the mum blues may include coffee and a new mug
    8. Maybe tea  is more your drink.  Tea is my number one favourite, especially after a long day
    9. Now may be the year that you start to write down your thoughts in a  note book.  Journaling can be good to get your negative thoughts out of your head on to paper.  Then reflect and try and change them to positive.
    10. A good book , one of my favourite authors is Stephen King. Other authors to consider are fellow bloggers,  Debra Purdy Kong who writes crime novels and the poetry of Ritu Bhathal.  Other blogging authors include Darlene Foster and Stevie Turner.   There are many published authors amongst the blogging community.

    These are just some ideas for a new you. I am sure there are many more. Shifting the stress of work and of being mum is important.  As a stressed mum I often forget this. My Kindle is sat by my bed waiting for me to pick it up and read.

    So what are your new years resolutions? have you made any?

     

    For more see, 15 ideas to keep your kids entertained

  • how do you keep your kids entertained
    Amazon,  Parenting

    15 ideas to help keep your kids entertained

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    So how do you keep your kids entertained? they can be difficult and as a parent I am often feeling stressed.  Here are some ideas.

    If you are a reader of my blog you will know that I have two wonderful but difficult children. Right now they are asking Alexa to play  David Bowie’s, Star man and dancing around the front room.  Yes this is one answer to keep them entertained, but if your children are like mine they are also jumping on and off the furniture.

    So here are some other ideas for if you are stuck at home. 

    1.My daughter loves to be creative, so she enjoys the creative sets by  Melissa and Doug she can spend hours creating.  It is also something that I can do with her. My son can also join in with us.

    2. The children also love colouring books, there are also more complicated colouring books   for your older child (or adult) that could keep them entertained for days.

    3. My son loves his Thomas the Tank engine trackmaster train set, my daughter loves it too.

    4. They also both love Lego and 5. K’nex they can spend many hours playing with it.  A recommendation here is a toy storage bag which means that it is easier to gather the lego and K’nex together once the child has finished playing.  Another option is to use a blanket to keep it together and off the carpet.  I have stood on many a lego brick and it hurts!

    6. My children love playing on their tablets, so another idea is the Amazon Kindle fire for kids they come with a years subscription to kids unlimited. This can also be subscribed to and there is a trial for kids unlimited – UK, my children benefit from what it has to offer  Amazon Freetime, Kids unlimited – America

    7. Another idea is books, my son loves Roald Dahl. The Twits is his favourite.  Books are great because not only does it keep the children quiet, you can also cuddle up and read with them.

    8. Other ideas for indoors include  baking together (Kids cookbook) then you can enjoy your cakes or baked goods afterwards, relax and eat them together. Satisfying but also productive and constructive.

    My children love to play outdoors when the weather is good.  To be honest they also enjoy jumping in puddles when it rains and making mummy upset by walking mud through the house. Not helped by the fact that we have beige carpets.

    So here are some outdoor ideas,

    9. Planting seeds, my children love doing this, then watching the flowers grow.  Amazon have many different seeds so are worth having a look at.  They also enjoy gardening but  this can be stressful when they start pulling out plants that you want to keep.

    Garden games is another option. Swingball is another family favourite. We can spend hours wacking the ball up and down the pole.

    10. My son loves his football but it often ends up over the fence in the neighbours garden. This then gives him the excuse to go over there and explore their garden, thankfully they do not mind.

    11. They also love to ride their bikes round and round.  However, we have a cycle path that we visit near by and spend hours cycling along it.

    12, Other outdoor ideas include, walking through the woods. Often quiet and a lot of opportunities to learn about nature. Going to the shops is not so much fun as they want everything in site.

    13. Visiting the local library and choosing some books together.  My two love doing this but can be very noisy.  They do not seem to understand ssshhh.

    14. My children love visiting Castles and the Zoo.  So English Heritage membership is worth considering, if you live in the UK.

    15. Maybe also membership of the local Zoo.   I find that the children are much better behaved when their minds are occupied.  It makes life that little bit easier for us as their parents.

    So are your children like mine? constantly needing your attention, needing to be entertained?

    I hope this has helped and given you some ideas. For more see some gift ideas,

     

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