• school books
    Parenting,  Poetry

    School, a great inspiration, poetry

     

    Ever have one of those days where you just pull out your hair?
    Those days, where the children appear to just sit and stare.
    Getting dressed for school and out the door is an effort,
    As mum’s screaming and shouting have no effect.
    Those days where you could happily just go back to bed,
    Pull up the duvet, shut out the world and rest your aching head.

    A two school delivery is what I did today,
    One child to breakfast club, with money to pay.
    With the other back, across town, we race,
    An 8.35 start, we set quite a pace.
    My little girl though hard work has now settled in well,
    The joys of her new school, excited by the lunchtime bell.

    For now, for her lunch, she chooses what goes on her plate,
    A buffet-style lunch, being wasted is no longer its fate.
    Today she has a burger, she is very excited,
    Telling me about the fillings and what she can put in it.
    My son meanwhile took a book to school today,
    Reading in the car, mummy sighed, hooray.

    For trying to impress on my reluctant reader,
    That reading is fun, and your writing will develop further.
    After pushing him with books that I thought a boy would like,
    It is Author ‘Colin Dann’, that has caused this reading spike.
    Inspired by the ‘Animals of the Farthing Wood’,
    Today happily reading as an eight-year-old really should.

    I’m sat here now enjoying my alone time ,
    ‘Ava Max’ on ‘Alexa’ is helping me rhyme.
    Maybe I’m a bit ‘Sweet but a Psycho’
    As I stress at the children, I’m often on the go.
    A working mum, managing children, writing and life,
    I am often a tired, exhausted, needing a rest, wife.

    My grey hairs tell a story of trying to do right,
    Of determination to put up that fight.
    My six-year-old will always do her homework at the weekend,
    We do it together, its time we enjoy and can depend.
    At her new school, she works so hard, she is tired,
    Learning all day, her joy and energy have expired.

    Today I spoke with her teacher, she no longer has work for home,
    I’m disappointed, we work together, she’s not alone.
    We now have a worksheet to work through together,
    Of exciting activities including visiting a garden centre.
    My daughter enjoys flowers, and this will inspire her,
    I bought her a pretty book to help her work harder.

    Learning through inspiring them, enjoyment through play,
    Happy creativity, wanting more information, day after day.
    I’m lucky that both children really work hard,
    I learned the hard way, I was not helped and inspired.
    I found school needless and boring, so many wasted years.
    Living vicariously now through their enthusiasm and tears.

    Now sitting here, feeling drained, listening to ‘Pink’
    Her music sometimes makes me think.
    Watching the rain fall outside, contented drinking my tea,
    There’s so much I need to do today, but right now is time for me.
    Time to relax, despite the British weather,
    Then later collect the children, for quality time together.

    For more see, The story of my life

  • cake
    Parenting,  Poetry

    Chocolate cake, birthday poetry

     

    It is now June and it’s been a long day,
    I’ve baked a chocolate cake,
    While the kids continued to play.
    My daughter had insisted on ‘Hello Kitty.’
    Fondant icing and sweets a treat on her birthday,
    With excitement, she loves it, hip hooray.

    cake

    Sitting here now, I’m feeling quite sick,
    Hard to bake a cake and then not pick.
    The huge quantity of chocolate icing,
    Sweets left over and not to much fighting.
    Sugary sweetness, chocolatey goodness.
    With love, it tastes nice but we need to eat less.

    My little girl will soon be six,
    Unbelievable the years have gone so quick.
    The toddler years they went too fast,
    There is so much now that is in the past.
    So many memories that will be not be forgotten,
    To be talked about again, they certainly weren’t rotten.

    Soon my children will be six and eight,
    They are hard work but are often great.
    Time is moving on and their presents are wrapped.
    Time for mum to sit and relax.
    Clothes, books and toys for my girl and boy.
    Presents that I’m sure will bring much joy.

    My seven year old he wants Minecraft and Roblox,
    He wants a chocolate cake with sponge and blocks.
    The main present he had early, it was a bike,
    Maybe near his birthday, we’ll take it out if he likes.
    Making time for each other and for a sister and her brother.
    Playing together, having fun, despite the British weather.

    Birthday cake is better homemade,
    A great ingredient cannot be delayed.
    The hard work and sweat of mum’s baking,
    The love inside there is no faking.
    The loving taste, that is so enjoyed,
    An amount of effort needs to be employed.

    cake

    Close family times, to be spent together,
    Making the most of our time with each other.
    Making time for cuddles and lots of hugs,
    Time for laughter, not too many child shrugs.
    Spend time with your family, especially when they are young,
    As way too soon their childhood is over and done.

    Looking at photos, looking at my family,
    Looking at my son, holding my baby.
    Special times that will never be replayed,
    But forever held in my memories everyday.
    So another year has gone, another birthday,
    One day to go, her birthday is Monday.

    For more see, The work day is over – Poetry

  • struggle of being mum, daughter in white
    Parenting

    The struggle of being a mum

    Today is a day I’m not proud of, I’m finding it a struggle being a mum. Feeling rubbish, I have not been well since Wednesday morning. I had plans for the school holidays, I was going to be the model parent, take the children out daily and explore. Instead, I’ve spent Wednesday and Thursday in bed and today I’m sat under my blanket watching Hawaii Five O. Yes a very lazy day. I’m not sure how single mums manage as daddy has had to help this week. Yes, it can certainly be a struggle to be a mum

    Now sat here, pains in my legs and stomach, the children are playing on the computer, yes great parenting! Trying to get myself motivated to move, I’m still wearing my pyjamas. The energy to get dressed and tackle the weeds in the garden is just not there. Maybe I will find the energy tomorrow.

    For the first time in months, maybe years, daddy has had to do the food shop. I’m sat now looking at what needs to be done, but I hurt too much to move. Trying to muster up the energy to walk to the toaster, I need food.

    As a mum, we take on so much responsibility and feel guilty when we can’t provide. Life goes on despite mum not being available for a few days. I’ve still done the washing and helped the children late at night, but reading and homework have not been completed.

    The children wanted to go for a bike ride, maybe another week, I haven’t driven the car since Tuesday morning, let alone ride a bike.

    Sitting here now, we have the weekend left for reading and homework. As a mum, I think there are times when we need to give ourselves a break. I managed to have a bath yesterday morning, bubbles and warmth, very good for achy tired limbs.

    Through fear of passing anything to the children, I haven’t hugged them properly since Tuesday. They both need to go to school on Monday, I have to go to work. Life does throw its challenges at us, right now I’m grateful to be getting better.

    In life, we all need to try and stay positive, which is hard if like me you often dwell on the negative. There are so many mum’s who are either alone or have more serious illnesses, not just a random sick bug.

    My plan for the next few days is to try and make the most of the weekend with the children. Maybe spend some time in the garden. Spending some time tidying would be good too as looking at my house right now, it is obvious to me that I’ve not been well.

    So to the single mums out there, how do you manage when you are not well? How do you get the children to school after a night of having your head resting on the toilet seat? I honestly don’t think I could have got them there, not without help. The struggle of being a mum is certainly greater for some mums than others.

    It’s June tomorrow, halfway through the year and the Annual Bloggers Bash is about two weeks away. Not long now, I’m excited to finally be meeting some of you properly. To meet the people behind your blogs. I’m often found hiding in the corner, too shy to talk. I’m hoping that as we have already shared so much that I will be able to relax and enjoy it.

    It has been years since I’ve travelled to London Victoria. I’ve already sat and tried to plan my day. However, it is impossible to plan the journey home properly due to the number of platforms at the station.  I will be the loon stopping the station staff for directions to the right platform. On a positive note though if I end up going in the wrong direction it could be an adventure and a good blog post. Though it could work out expensive.

    My daughter has just come in from the garden with a moth on her leg.  I’ve not got the energy to ensure she takes it back outside safely and she is now heading upstairs.  She is strong-willed and often will not do as she is told., part of the ongoing struggle of being a mum.

    moth on daughters leg

    Anyway, on with the day, the television is now off and daddy is now on the computer. What is it with boys/men and computer games? I’m now going to get up and make a mug of tea. Then maybe do something productive if my body will let me.

    For more see Maintaining balance in life

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